Marriage Advice(don't learn the hard way)

NEVER STOP COURTING. NEVER STOP DATING.
NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to fiercely protect it. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. SHE CHOSE YOU. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love.
PROTECT YOUR OWN HEART.
Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife. Keep that space always ready to receive her and invite her in, and refuse to let anyone or anything else enter there.
FALL IN LOVE OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today. Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday. SHE DOESN’T HAVE TO STAY WITH YOU, and if you don’t take care of her heart, she may give that heart to someone else or seal you out completely, and you may never be able to get it back. Always fight to win her love just as you did when you were courting her.
ALWAYS SEE THE BEST IN HER.
Focus only on what you love. What you focus on will expand. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged. If you focus on what you love, you can’t help but be consumed by love. Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.
IT’S NOT YOUR JOB TO CHANGE OR FIX HER.
Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing. And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.
TAKE FULL ACCOUNTABILITY.
Take full accountability for your own emotions. It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad. You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.
NEVER BLAME HER IF YOU GET ANGRY.
NEVER BLAME your wife If YOU get frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them: when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.
ALLOW YOUR WOMAN TO JUST BE.
When she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always lean. The feminine spirit is about change and emotion and like a storm her emotions will roll in and out, and as you remain strong and unjudging she will trust you and open her soul to you: DON’T RUN-AWAY WHEN SHE’S UPSET. Stand present and strong and let her know you aren’t going anywhere. Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.
BE SILLY.
Don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh. Laughter makes everything else easier.
FILL HER SOUL EVERYDAY:
Learn her love languages and the specific ways that she feels important and validated and CHERISHED. Ask her to create a list of 10 THINGS that make her feel loved and memorize those things and make it a priority everyday to make her feel like a queen.
BE PRESENT.
Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. Treat her as you would your most valuable client. She is.
BE WILLING TO TAKE HER SEXUALLY.
To carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength, and to penetrate her to the deepest levels of her soul. Let her melt into her feminine softness as she knows she can trust you fully.
DON’T BE AN IDIOT.
Don’t be an idiot and don’t be afraid of being one either. You will make mistakes and so will she. Try not to make too big of mistakes, and learn from the ones you do make. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.
GIVE HER SPACE.
The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself. Sometimes she will need to fly from your branches to go and find what feeds her soul, and if you give her that space she will come back with new songs to sing:. (okay, getting a little too poetic here, but you get the point. Tell her to take time for herself, ESPECIALLY after you have kids. She needs that space to renew and get re-centered, and to find herself after she gets lost in serving you, the kids and the world.)
BE VULNERABLE.
You don’t have to have it all together. Be willing to share your fears and feelings, and quick to acknowledge your mistakes.
BE FULLY TRANSPARENT.
If you want to have trust you must be willing to share EVERYTHING: Especially those things you don’t want to share. It takes courage to fully love, to fully open your heart and let her in when you don’t know i she will like what she finds… Part of that courage is allowing her to love you completely, your darkness as well as your light. DROP THE MASK: If you feel like you need to wear a mask around her, and show up perfect all the time, you will never experience the full dimension of what love can be.
NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER.
The stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common goals, dreams and visions to work towards.
DON’T WORRY ABOUT MONEY.
Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.
FORGIVE IMMEDIATELY.
Forgive immediately and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your history hold you hostage. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back. FORGIVENESS IS FREEDOM. Cut the anchor loose and always choose love.
ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE…
In the end, this is the only advice you need. If this is the guiding principle through which all your choices is governed, there is nothing that will threaten the happiness of your marriage. Love will always endure.
In the end MARRIAGE isn’t about Happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come.
Marriage is life, and it will bring ups and downs. Embracing all of the cycles and learning to learn from and love each experience will bring the strength and perspective to keep building, one brick at a time.

How to Stop Being Your Own Worst Enemy

Success isn't usually the path of least resistance; it takes a lot of hard work to get somewhere in this world. Likewise, it isn't that easy to screw things up for yourself, either. You've really got to work at it. And some people - particularly overachievers, for some reason - do exactly that. They truly are their own worst enemy. I should know. I've been there. I've shot myself in the foot more times than I care to remember. But I don't sweat that for three reasons. First, nobody's perfect. It won't do you any good to
beat yourself up. Second, if you're not screwing up, you're not taking enough risks. Third, as long as you're willing to take a good hard look in the mirror and deal with what you see, you'll probably work things out just fine. In other words, it's okay to create problems for yourself once in a while, as long as you learn from it and quit doing it. Along those lines, here are some of the most common ways that people like you and me make our lives harder than they have to be and create bad Karma that comes back to haunt us. Left unchecked, this sort of bad behavior can and often will keep you from achieving your potential. Letting jealousy govern your actions. Envy and resentment drive all sorts of bad behavior. They can eat you up inside. The most self destructive aspect is letting what others are doing, what they own, how much they make, keep you from focusing on the only thing you can control: you, your goals and your actions. Getting too social on social networks. Like it or not, what you post on Facebook and Twitter represents you. The same is true of everything you blog, comment, email, text and Tweet. With the
possible exception of SnapChat, the internet is forever, like a bad tattoo you can never get rid of. Don't write or post anything you wouldn't want future potential customers and employers to see.
Lying and living in denial. Yes, I know, people lie. I get that. But there's a big difference between calling in sick to spend a day with your family and completely fabricating a degree on your resume, like former Yahoo CEO Scott Thompson did. Even worse, after getting caught he continued to lie to shareholders, employees, and his board of directors. Acting out in anger. Talk about self-destructive behavior. While those in charge sometimes bully or micromanage when they're in over their heads, few survive that sort of chronic behavior, especially when
they don't have the talent to back it up. Don't forget, even Steve Jobs lost his job at Apple once over his toxic management style. Doing the wrong things to get ahead. Cutting corners, sabotaging coworkers, telling bosses what they want to hear instead having the courage to tell the truth - there's a long list of bad behavior people mistakenly employ, ostensibly to get ahead. And once they start down that slippery slope, look out below. Not paying your bills. Not only is this the height of unprofessional and unethical behavior, you can almost use it as a compass that points to good and bad companies and people. I have a deadbeat client right now: a big company that's making a big mistake. Pay your bills. All of them. On time. Period. Thinking business is about you. Companies exist to make competitive products to win customers. The world's most powerful brands have products that speak for themselves. That's what business is about. If, for some reason, you think you're a product, that's fine, but customers don't care about you or your personal brand - hey care about what you can do for them. Let your actions speak for themselves. Behaving like an entitled brat. Children are the most entitled people on earth. Naturally, their very survival depends on getting adults to do things for them. But as you mature, you're supposed to realize the world doesn't revolve around you. Sadly, some people never grow up. They think they're entitled to what they want and they whine incessantly when they don't get it. In a word, those people are simply unemployable. The truth is, what goes around comes around. I'm not sure what happens in the afterlife, but I know that's what happens in this life. Don't just believe me. Believe the words of two immortal men: John Lennon: "Instant Karma's gonna get you; gonna knock you right on the head." Steve Jobs, on getting fired from Apple: "It was awful-tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick." Consider yourself hit in the head. Don't let bad behavior destroy your career ... or your life.

9 Ways to Make Gobs of Money(they are steps you need to meditate on)

1 .Start with nothing and grow up in a tough neighborhood. Lots of wildly successful people started with nothing and fought hard every day of their lives to make it. Starbucks founder and CEO Howard Schultz and Goldman Sachs CEO Lloyd Blankfein grew up not far from where I did in Brooklyn. Competition and adversity breed great leaders.
2. Do what you love ... and pray there's a market for it. Steve Jobs said, "The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle." He was absolutely right. If you follow your passion - and so do customers - the money will follow.
3. Follow the yellow brick road ... to Silicon Valley. The high-tech industry has created enormous wealth for millions of people, and not just top executives, either. Microsoft alone accounts for an estimated 12,000 millionaires among former or current employees. The reason? Technology startups are the land of equity and opportunity.
4. Own your own business and live like a monk.
Two thirds of America's millionaires are self-employed. The vast majority are small business owners who live on budgets well below their means, invest their money, and never received any kind of inheritance, according to the book "The Millionaire
Next Door." Do you really need that new car or iPad? Nope.
5. Take risks, make mistakes and trust your gut.
Most people are either ridiculously risk averse or take dumb risks they know they shouldn't take. Take smart risks, the ones that make sense to you. Trust your gut. You'll be wrong more often than not but that's okay. Nobody ever got ahead by playing it
safe.
6. Work your living tail off and make lots of sacrifices. Yahoo CEO Marissa Mayer is a serious workaholic who works 90 hours a week. So does Elon Musk, who runs two companies and is not much of a delegator. The same was true of Steve Jobs when he
ran Apple and Pixar. You get out of life what you put in.
7. Manufacture your own luck. It's said that luck is when opportunity meets preparedness. While it's true that I've been very, very lucky, it's also true that I never stopped searching for opportunities and never hesitated to go for it when I found even a glimmer of a possibility. My advice: quit tweeting and linking and get out and network with real people in the real world.
8. Stay married. Although this doesn't work in Nigeria. I have seen it over and over again: one of the most common killers of wealth is the good old "divide by two." Think about it. Each time you get divorced, that's another divide by two. Divorce is a geometric progression - to the poor house. That's why only the poor and very rich can afford it. If you're in the middle, forget it.
9. Diversify, diversify, diversify. That age-old axiom is so true it isn't funny. I have an old friend - a former senior executive like me - whose investment strategy has always been to put his money in as many different places as possible. It takes time and effort but the payoff is huge. Save your money, invest it wisely and diversify. Of course, you can always call yourself a social media entrepreneur or a self-branded CEO of one and generate all sorts of free online content while the folks at Google and Facebook get rich. The truth is, nobody ever got anywhere by doing what everyone else is doing. You may as well just buy lottery tickets and pray for a miracle.

6 Bits of Advice to Follow for Successful Relationships

Do you know how to have a successful relationship? Many couples make the same mistakes over and over again, and do not understand why they fail. These simple tips can help you to realize what a good relationship actually means.

1. Communication is a key to having a good relationship. You should understand that your partner can’t read your thoughts. Do not assume anything! Talk about your feelings, dreams, fears etc… Talk about it all! When you start dating, it may be about physical attraction, but long lasting relationships demand communication.

2. Listening to your partner. Communication is not just saying to your partner what you’re thinking about. Listening is as essential as talking. It’s important not only to listen to what your partner tells you, but also to read his or her body language. Body Language very often can tell you more than spoken words.

3. Having shared goals is a key to succeeding in love. A relationship isn’t built on love alone, it’s very important to be sure that a person you’re with is like minded. For instance, you want to have kids but your partner doesn’t. Think where do you want to be in several years and how children play into the equation.

4. Get involved in common activities. It will help you to spend more time together and will surely make you closer to each other. Do you both like biking, skating, dancing, or singing?

5. Giving space. Of course, it is impossible to like doing the same sort of things your partner does all the time. But successful relationship allows your partner space to pursue his or her passions. Pursue your own interests independently too.

6. Give and take. If you want your relationship to work, it’s got to be about “us.” That means you should learn to give and take. These two aspects encompass the whole of a successful relationship, from picking out the chairs to sex. Don’t be too selfish, sometimes it is essential to meet your partners’ needs even if you don’t want to do it at all… Sometimes it is essential to be glad to receive roses for your birthday even if you hate them. To be in true love means to depend on the other person to complete you. No relationship can survive on just giving, or just taking. It takes doing both!

Me,the cafe and the okada man

I'm a lady of 26,It was one of those years that internet just got to Nigeria and facebook came in along the line,everybody was crazy about it, this fateful day,I decided to go browse facebook and chat with my friends as usual because that's the trend at that time. I bought three hours at the cafe because I want to spend enough time chatting and browsing the web,you know how it was that time,still freaked by it and no smart phones to browse with,I chose a very cool area and corner where no one can disturb me or interfere with what I'm doing,just me alone, I put my password and username and log in,what I saw was shocking,it was a porn video,I guessed the last user of the computer was watching it before the computer timed out on him/her when he has exhausted his/her time, wow the part I met was so interesting,I couldn't close the window,I went for the headphone instead and lock my ears up with it. The guy is so good,have never experienced anything like that before,you will think he is eating lunch or dinner,like he's eating sauced snail,he spread her legs and was taking his time to touch every corner of her pussy,sucked her life out as she was screaming,he was sucking her clits and put his finger inside her pussy at the sametime,finger fucking her so fast ,using his teeth to bite her clits and dragging it, soon he insert his dick inside her and she moaned for joy,he raised her right leg up to enable him thrust well,soon they changed to doggy,he was thrusting so fast and hard and all what the girl was screaming is pls pls pls,oh oh ,the thrusting became more faster and I guessed he will cum soon ,the girl also increased her moaning,he removed his dick and went straight to the girls mouth,she was sucking when the guy let it all out,the girl didn't allow a single drop out of her mouth,she swallowed everything,wow she's good,and it continues,before I knew it the computer timed out,have exhausted my time,I couldn't believed I spent 3hours watching porn,I didn't open one browser. and it was already 9pm in the night,I stood up to go home,stopped an okada man,tell him where I'm going,I climbed the okada and he drove off,I couldn't hold myself with all the stuffs I saw at the cafe,I was now rubbing my breast to his back,I didn't stop doing it,it got to a stage he stopped at a very quiet foot path where people don't get to pass often,he came down,he brought out a condom,he didn't need to tell me before I got the point,I wasn't scared nor thought about what I was about to do,because I was so horny and high on it,i went to a corner,held on a tree and shoot out my butt for him to enter through the back,he wore the condom and he entered me,I moaned a sound of relieve,he's dick is on the average side and he knows how to use it well,he was thrusting so fast and hard,I was enjoying it and moaning,the thrusting became faster,I knew he was about to cum,and yeah,he came, we dressed back up and continue the journey,I was satisfied but throughout we didn't say a word to each other,,he dropped me at my point of destination and he zoomed off,he didn't even wait or bother to collect money for the transportation maybe he thought I didn't have money to pay that's why I did it,I'm very sure he is used to it,that explains him having a condom,anyways I don't care,I enjoyed it and never thought my day will be so crazy like that,I went inside,took a shower,ate and slept imagining

My Ibadan sex escapades

    This is a story I always make emphasis on anytime I get to to talk about my sex life,actually it wasn't my sex life,I lied,it was my friends sex life. It goes, we are four friends, Soji,Jide,Segun and Taiwo, Segun is a womanizer ,he's ok financially,has his own apartment,friendly and good looking,Soji is a clown,he's ok too but very stingy,na only woman you fit use collect money for hin hand,Segun and Taiwo are cool and ok financially too, I know you are wondering which one of the four guys is me,continue reading I might tell you. One thing we are fond of is something we called SAATi,it means watching each other fucking a girl without the girl knowing,by doing this,we rate each other on performance and who fucks best and who has the biggest and longest rod,I know it sounds and looks bad but we are not bad na just look, we have been doing this for long but the best part and the part we always remember came one day when Segun told us about a girl he just met and will be coming to visit him that faithful day,we were all excited because it was getting dull already and we knew we will be watching if anything should happen which we know its going to happen because my friend Segun is a great man and doesn't joke with woman matter and won't waste any chance,if you come visit him for house as a woman,you must fuck,without wasting time we heard a knock on the door,I was the one that opened the door ,hmmmm I was dumbfounded because no she's hot,she has both breasts and ass,flat tummy with a round face,not tall,before I allowed her in I had already removed her top and jeans with my eyes and damn I love what I saw,hi whatsup,come in and we all introduced ourselves,after a little time of gisting and talking ,Mr Segun was sighing us to get out of the room,so as sharp guys,we had to form activities,guys let's go and drink some beer,so we went out and sure we will be watching through the window as usual,even though there is a cotton covering the window but anytime action is about to start the person inside will shift the window blind a little for viewing for the goons. We were outside when we saw the cotton moved, that's how we know the action movie has began,looking from the window,the girl was still sitting on the chair but they are already kissing,no she's good at kissing,he slowly took his hand to her breast and smooching her,she didn't resist,I believe that's a green light and what gingered Segun,he put his hand inside her shirt and continue smooching,he removed her shirt slowly,omg the shirt was hiding her boobs,can't say who's boobs is bigger between her and mercy johnson,they were fresh,he brought out one and was rubbing the nipples,he later removed her bra and we can see the fullness and firmness of the boobs,he stopped kissing her and shifted is attention on the boobs,sucking one and rubbing the nipple of the other with his hand,it wasn't long before she started to moan softly, after a while he removed the her jean,her pant was a set with her bra,he continue sucking the breast and slowly took his hand down to her pussy,immediately his hand got to her pussy,she spread her leg wide,she was so wet that the pant is already soaked,he was sucking and rubbing her pussy and her clits at the same time,she brought his head up and told him in a moaning voice lick me,he removed her pant,that's when we jiggled from the window oh boy,it was clean and neat,she spread her leg for him to lick her,it was at this point that I couldn't take it anymore from outside,the clits were huge and the pussy red,Segun knelt down and get to work,he focused more on the clits and was sucking it not licking,she was screaming loud,it got to a stage she was shaking,soon she squirted,she screamed segun segun,he didn't stop,he was licking everything together with the squirt,mehn Segun is a bad boy,she moaned fuck me,baby fuck me,he stood up to remove his boxer short,it was then the girl put her hand in his boxer,after removing his boxer,the girl wowed,your dick is big,too big,do you want to feel it he asked,yes all of it she said,he kissed her and laid her back on the chair,she spread her legs wide as he insert it slowly in her already wet red pussy,she moaned for joy,hmmm,hmmmm,hmmmm,omg,yes,yes,yes, that's the sound she was making as he's thrusting her so hard,segun,segun and it didn't take long before she came,he removed his dick and clean it up and cleaned up the girls pussy too,the girl stood up,it was then I saw her full shape and figure,I tell you,I was tempted to go inside and have my shot,they continued on the bed with a missionary style,he was fucking her so hard that she was screaming,suddenly we heard a sound,she slapped him,Segun was surprised,what happened? She said sorry,I'm enjoying it,we laughed outside,the show went on,later they moved back to the chair but this time it was a doggy style,wow,her ass is big,the fucking continues in a doggy style,she was rolling and twerking on his dick,not long she squirted again,fuck me,fuck me,faster she said,I'm cuming ,the thrusting increased,she was shouting as the fucking was faster than before,he removed his dick and released on her,they both went to the bathroom and the show was over,it was the best saati I have seen,we all wish we could have a taste of her,we left the compound before she comes out so she won't see us but I dan mark her face,still looking for her. Segun called us and we all went out to drink with the girl,she acted like nothing happen and we acted like we didn't see anything.    

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Body Language Signs Men Do While Flirting

Every woman is trying to “read” men’s flirting
signals. And it’s not so hard as you think. If you really
want to know that he is into you or not and what he
may be thinking— then read this!
1. His Eyes.
Yes, his eyes can tell you a lot. If it’s your first or
second date, he’ll look away when you’ll look at him.
It’s a sign that he likes you. If you know each other
longer – he’ll look deeply into your eyes during
conversation. It means he has fallen for you. Eyes are
the doorways to your soul.
2. His Posture
If you want to know whether he likes you or not, you
need to pay attention to the details. Be careful, if he
puts his hands on his hips, he doesn’t have a strong
interest. He’s just showing he’s a macho guy. If a
man spreads his legs apart- it’s a good sign. It also
shows that he is not tense and uptight but relaxed
and receptive to you.
3. His Lips
If a man likes a woman, he becomes nervous. His
mouth gets dry and a guy starts to lick his lips. Every
time you see this, you’ll know that he likes you. Pay
attention to flirty smiles. Guys always smile at a
woman they like.

How I lost my virginity in calabar at the age of 17 part2

Continue from part 1........
She said nice rod you have there as it has fully erected with all the veins showing as she walked towards me,straight to my lips,her lips was so soft,have never seen Anything as soft as her lips in my life,it was a kiss of life,as she was kissing me she slowly moved her left hand down to my erected dick,it was a lovely touch,I was shockinged and shaking as all the bloos in my body left their post and went straight down to my dick,she was stroking it with her hand so nice that I was about to cum She stopped kissing me and whispered into my ears,not yet,don't cum on me yet,she walked away as I watch and she went and sat on a stab and spread her legs,wow it was so clean and well shaved,I could see my future through it,I was starring at it when her voice broke the silence,come,its all yours,I moved closer,she said I want to feel your tongue,lick the hell out of me,I went down on my kneels infront of her pussy Have not done it before but have seen it in porns,I put my mouth to it and started licking everything,it didn't take long before she started moaning,I was impressed and added more force ,bringing out my tongue to touch every area of her wet pussy,she held tight to my head,after some time she said I want to feel your huge dick in my pussy ,I tried to hold it a little longer but couldn't hold it for long as I was thrusting fast,at this time I was moaning too and boom,I shoot it all out,she held my waist very tight to her legs and didn't allow my dick out,she was shaking,I released inside of her as she said thanks for waiting for me,I smiled because I didn't know she came,she stood up patted me and said nice job as she walked away to the ladies ,I went to have a shower and dressed up,she was already out by the time I was out,she was looking at me and blushing. Later after my friend is done swimming and is already reaching the evening period,everybody is set to leave,as I was going with my cousin,she came to me and gave me a paper and she left in her car. I opened the paper and saw call me with her phone number written under it,it was a great outing and sunday after all,a sunday I will never forget

How I lost my virginity in calabar @ 17( Part 1)

It all happened in april some days before my 18years birthday,I live with my parents in Abuja,have been home for a while because I am out of secondary school and patiently waiting for admission into the university,I was so tired of home and so bored to the extreme,so I decided to call up my cousin that lives in calabar,we are of the same year but he is already 18 to check out how he is coping and how the whole situation is,over there at calabar,so he invited me over for couple of weeks to kill boredom,atleast we will be two instead of just me at home,it was on a tuesday,I told my parents and decided to leave on friday. I was so excited and I can't wait to get there,its been long I went there,I can't say I went there sef because I was 8,my parents took me there,enough of the story,friday is already here,I dan pack my load since tuesday night. My parents dropped me off at the park and it was a good farewell(bye mom n dad,be a good boy,I will) was happy inside, finally I'm leaving boredom,the bust needs only one passenger and ready to go. Yee lucky me,the only space left is beside a cuty,fair,pretty young lady,I smiled to her when I entered,she jiggled back,I don't know how to ask a girl out but I sure do know how to get a good convo going, so I started,my name is Val,you? She answered Mercy,so we continue,I'm going to calabar to visit my cousin,he is the only person I know there,she told me she lives there,that she's actually going home from a short visit to her sister and so on and voom we are already in calabar,it was a very nice conversation,so we exchanged pins and went different ways.

Knocking at my cousins gate with the description he gave me,heyyyyyyy guy hafa na,how u dey,how ur journey,hope it wasn't so hard to locate,I asked popsi and momsi dey house,no dey went to work,wetin make I give you now,cold water bro,ok. Meet my girlfriend her name is Sandra,Sandra meet my cousin Val,hello,hi,nice to meet you,my pleasure,she's already leaving let's see her off.

Oh boy, you dey flex o,so you dan dey fuck,you no be like me wey b verigin,my cousin shouted YOU BE VIRGIN?,ok don't worry I will hook you up,we went on gisting about his girls and everything till night and we heard someone honk,daddy and mummy are back he said,so we went to the living room to greet them,welcome sir,welcome ma,Valentine how are you and it continues

Sunday afternoon after church we decided to go swimming,I don't really know how to swim but wearing my swimsuit makes my huge dick all shoot out and the wetness didn't help either,it got to a stage I was shy because everybody was looking at me both ladies and gents I stopped swimming and decided to wear my clothes so I went to the changing room,I was under the shower when I heard a tiny voice,do you need help? I looked back and behold it was a naked woman with her boobs pointing straight to my face,the boobs are firm and well rounded with huge nipples to complement them With a pretty face and nice shaped clean body combined,I was shocked and dint know what to say,I was just swallowing my saliva,she asked me,you like what you are seeing?I nodded